The pious woman in Islam: her qualities in the Quran and Sunnah

المَرْأَةُ الصَّالِحَة

The pious woman (al-mar’ah as-salihah) is described by the Prophet ﷺ as the best treasure of this world. Here are her qualities and role models.

The pious woman in Islam: her qualities in the Quran and Sunnah and her role models Maryam and Khadijah, Muslim Alim
The pious woman in Islam: a prayer rug, an open Quran and prayer beads near a window at dawn
Prayer, the first sign of piety.

The pious woman in the Quran

فَالصَّالِحَاتُ قَانِتَاتٌ حَافِظَاتٌ لِّلْغَيْبِ بِمَا حَفِظَ اللَّهُ
Fas-salihatu qanitatun hafizatun lil-ghaybi bima hafiza Allah

“So righteous women are devoutly obedient, guarding in (their husband’s) absence what Allah would have them guard.”

Surah An-Nisa, 4:34

The ten qualities of the pious woman

  1. Faith and fear of Allah (taqwa), the source of all other qualities.
  2. Prayer performed on time, see how to pray.
  3. Modesty (haya) in dress, gaze and speech; see the hijab in Islam.
  4. Reading the Quran and remembering Allah (dhikr).
  5. Kindness to her parents, her husband and her children.
  6. Patience in hardship, like Asiyah facing Pharaoh.
  7. Generosity: the women at the time of the Prophet ﷺ gave their jewellery in charity (Sahih al-Bukhari, 1431).
  8. Seeking knowledge, like ‘Aishah, who transmitted more than 2,000 hadiths.
  9. Good speech and keeping away from backbiting.
  10. Faithfulness and keeping the secrets of the home.
Islamic books, a notebook and a cup of tea on a wooden table, symbol of seeking knowledge
Seeking knowledge, a quality of the women of early Islam.

The role models of the pious woman

WomanWhat she teaches
MaryamPurity and devotion; a surah bears her name
AsiyahFirm faith in the face of Pharaoh’s tyranny (66:11)
KhadijahUnfailing support for the Prophet ﷺ from the first revelation
FatimahSimplicity, patience and love of the Prophet ﷺ
‘AishahKnowledge and teaching the religion

A supplication for a pious family

رَبَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ أَزْوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّيَّاتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْيُنٍ وَاجْعَلْنَا لِلْمُتَّقِينَ إِمَامًا
Rabbana hab lana min azwajina wa dhurriyyatina qurrata a‘yun waj‘alna lil-muttaqina imama

“Our Lord, grant us from our spouses and offspring comfort to our eyes, and make us leaders of the righteous.”

Surah Al-Furqan, 25:74

Read also the place of women in Islam, marriage in Islam and all our duas.

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Frequently asked questions

You may be wondering…

What is a pious woman in Islam?

She is a believer who fears Allah (taqwa), performs her prayers, guards her modesty and treats her family with kindness. The Prophet ﷺ said: “This world is an enjoyment, and the best enjoyment of this world is a righteous woman (al-mar’ah as-salihah)” (Sahih Muslim, 1467).

What are the qualities of the pious woman in the Quran?

Surah An-Nisa describes righteous women as devoutly obedient and guarding in their husband’s absence what Allah has ordered to be guarded (4:34). Surah Al-Ahzab (33:35) lists believing women who are submissive, truthful, patient, humble, charitable, fasting, chaste and who remember Allah often.

Who are the best women of Islam?

The Prophet ﷺ named Maryam daughter of ‘Imran, Asiyah wife of Pharaoh, Khadijah daughter of Khuwaylid and Fatimah daughter of Muhammad as the best women of the worlds (At-Tirmidhi, 3878).

How does she enter Paradise?

“If a woman prays her five prayers, fasts her month, guards her chastity and obeys her husband, it will be said to her: enter Paradise by whichever gate you wish” (Ahmad, 1661, judged good by several scholars).

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